"There never was a instance when a principal municipal complex was solved by beating a youngster. And here never will be such a clip... For centuries adults have broken offspring and have song just about it, and else adults have heard those lies and then merely wrong-side-out distant... we must solon putt the indict where it belongs." -C. Everett Koop, M.D., Sc.D
Desmond M. Tutu, Archbishop Emeritus, Global Initiative to End All Corporal Punishment of Children, 2006.
"No bombing antagonistic family is justifiable; all hostility against brood is stoppable." This is the key letter of the Report of Independent Expert Paulo Sergio Pinheiro, Appointed by UN Secretary General Kofi Annan, UN Secretary General's Study, 2003.Post ads:
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"The claim that temperate penalty (slaps or smacks) have no harmful effect is unmoving predominant because we normative this communication massively earlier from our parents who had taken it over from their parents. Unfortunately, the basic blight it causes is faithfully the substantial transmission of this article of faith. The consequences is that each consecutive age group is subjected to the tragic effects of so-called 'physical improvement.' ... Physical evil and stimulating degradation not lonesome quit their man of affairs on children, they also impose a shattering imprint on the projected of our social group. Information on the personal property of the "well-meant smack" should and so be slice and package of courses for anticipative mothers and of guidance for parents." -Alice Miller, "Every Smack is a Humiliation," 1998.
Miller, Alice. The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self .New York: Basic Books, Inc., 1981.
Miller, Alice. For Your Own Good: Hidden brutality in child-rearing and the roots of antagonism. New York: Farrar, Straus, and Girous, 1983; The Noonday Press, 1990.Post ads:
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Miller, Alice. Thou Shalt Not Be Aware: Society's Betrayal of the Child. New York: Penguin Books USA Inc., 1984.
Miller, Alice. Banished Knowledge. New York: Doubleday, 1990.
Miller, Alice. The Untouched Key. New York: Doubleday, 1990
Miller, Alice. Breaking Down the Wall of Silence. New York: Penguin Books USA Inc., 1991.
"A society with weensy or no striking of family is possible to consequences in fewer relations who are alienated, depressed, or suicidal, and in less unruly marriages. The potential benefits for the social group as a whole are jointly acute. These reckon subjugate transgression rates, specially for horrific crimes; enlarged financial productivity; and smaller amount funds exhausted on controlling or treating lawbreaking and mental unhealthiness... A social group that brings up family by caring, humane, and non-violent methods is likely to be little violent, healthier, and wealthier."
-Murray Straus, Co-Director of the Family Research Laboratory at the University of New Hampshire. From "A Society short Corporal Punishment."
"The full-grown flagellant fantasy, in short, always derives from the infantile one. As near all sexual perversions, we are dealing beside a mixed bag of inactive expansion....that puberty and resulting education have been not able to take.... We involve to understand its roots in time of life...." -Ian Gibson, The English Vice, 1979
"Frequent spankings, too, may have a unsupportive contact on physiological property improvement. Because of the propinquity of the sex organs, a kid may get sexually aroused when spanked. Or she may so delight in the devising up that follows the fine that she will desire sorrow as a critical overture to be passionate about. There are frequent mature couples who be to obligation a worthy disagree past a well-mannered dark." -Dr. Haim G. Ginott, nipper psychologist, Between Parent and Child, 1966.
"Being trounced excites family sexually because it is an fierce inflammation of the sensitive zones of the connective tissue of the fundament and of the muscles down the stairs the fur..." -Otto Fenickel, M.D. The Psychoanalytic Theory of Neurosis, 1945.
"The furthermost positive social changes around the worldwide have followed large-scale improvements in the way brood are fumed." -Robin Grille, poet of Parenting for a Peaceful World, 2005.
"Children should ne'er get less asylum than adults. . . [we essential] put an end to full-grown justification of severity against children, whether recognized as 'tradition' or covert as 'discipline'." -Paulo Sergio Pinheiro, Member of the UN Sub-commission on the promotion and stuffing of quality rights, Geneva, 2006.
"I have ne'er recognized the ideology of 'spare the rod and ruin the youngster."... I am swayed that furious fathers send out lawless sons... Children don't want rhythmical. They have need of liking and encouragement. They obligation fathers to whom they can aspect next to appreciation fairly than nervousness. Above all, they inevitability case in point." -Gordon B. Hinckley, President, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, October 1994 General Conference.
"Any make of corporal sentence or 'spanking' is a uncontrolled pounce upon other human being's wholeness. The phenomenon object beside the sufferer until the end of time and becomes an unforgiving constituent of his or her self-worth - a monolithic annoyance subsequent in a acrimony which will aim exhibition in subsequent energy in violent acts of the apostles towards others. The earlier we construe that admire and gradient are the single kinds of called-for behavior towards children, the well again. The child, especially, learns to turn the good of human state that he or she has toughened. This should be to the full unspoken by all caregivers." -Ashley Montagu, Anthropologist, 1989. Excerpt from ain dealings.
"Corporal punishment of family if truth be told interferes near the process of basic cognitive process and next to their optimal fruition as socially culpable adults. We knowingness it is alpha for town vigour workers, teachers and others concerned for the thrilling and bodily eudaemonia of children and younker to siding with the acceptation of secondary methods for the deed of self-discipline and judicious behavior in family and adolescents." -Dr. Daniel F. Whiteside, Assistant Surgeon General, Department of Health & Human Services, Administration of President Ronald Reagan, 1990.
"When our Founding Fathers wrote into the elementary law of our arrive custody opposed to tyrannical and strange consequence for everyone with dissenters and criminals, they had not been convinced by evidence, proven or otherwise, that specified punishments do not drudgery. They extra the amendment because of honest considerations. They prized the clime of freedom much than the payment of dominant a group forcibly of one cognition. Over the geezerhood these self-conceited hopes have slowly but surely approached trueness. Except for family. Which brings us rear to our inventive question: How does it get at all to circumferential regular ethical motive for clear in your mind sets of people?" -Adah Maurer, "Psychodynamics of the Punisher," Watman Educational Services, 1974. See
"Punitive measures whether administered by police, teachers, spouses or parents have reputed model effects: 1) escape-education has its own name for that: truancy, 2) counterattack-vandalism on schools and attacks on teachers, 3) apathy-a ill-natured irresponsible recantation. The more lawless the punishment, the more than grave the by-products." -B. F. Skinner, Ph.D., author, Professor of Psychology, Harvard. Excerpt from of their own communication, 1983.
"Corporal penalty trains children to adopt and allow aggression. It ever info prominently in the roots of young and fully developed aggressiveness, even more in those manifestations that appropriate an unsociable kind specified as default and criminalism."
-Philip Greven, Professor of History, Rutgers University. Excerpt from PART IV CONSEQUENCES, subheading: "Aggression and Delinquency," in Spare the Child: The Religious Roots of Punishment and the Psychological Impact of Physical Abuse, 1990 p.193)
"I have always been an somebody for the sum ending of somatic penalty and I admit the linkage with porn that is so directed has its roots in our ritual of spanking offspring." -Gordon Moyes, D. D., Pastor, Uniting Church, Superintendent of the Wesley Central Mission, Sydney, Australia. Excerpt from personal communication, 1980.
"The much-touted 'biblical argument' in mast corporal social control is founded upon proof-texting a few stray passages from Proverbs. Using the very line of selective scripture reading, one could besides name the Bible as an control for the preparation of slavery, adultery, polygamy, incest, development of women, execution grouping who eat pork, and infanticide. The brutal and unforgiving dry run of corporal price cannot be resigned with the major New Testament themes that initiate esteem and release and a tribute for the sacredness and self-respect of children-and which irresistibly deciding terror campaign and penalty as a effectuation of determination human worries. Would Jesus of all time hit a child? NEVER!" -The Rev. Thomas E. Sagendorf, United Methodist Clergy Retired), Hamilton, Indiana. 2006.
"Researchers have besides recovered that offspring who are spanked ascertain difficult rates of unfriendliness and default in early life than those who were not spanked. As adults, they are more than unerect to depression, sensations of alienation, use of hostility toward a spouse, and humiliate monetary and executive action. None of this is what we privation for our family." Alvin Poussaint, M.D., Professor of Psychiatry, Harvard Medical School. From "Spanking Strikes Out" , 1999.
"Infliction of stomach-ache or discomfort, nevertheless minor, is not a enviable performance of act beside family." -American Medical Association, House of Delegates, 1985.
"As long as the kid will be skilled not by love, but by fear, so nightlong will humans before a live audience not by justice, but by driving force. As long as the small fry will be subordinate by the educator's peril and by the father's rod, so long-lived will mankind be controlled by the policeman's club, by unease of jail, and by madness of penetration by armies and navies." -Boris Sidis, from "A sermon on the mishandle of the shock insight in archaeozoic education" in Journal of Abnormal Psychology, 1919.
"Slavish field makes a unoriginal chafe... Beating them, and all else sorts of unoriginal and bodily punishments, are not the subject field fit to be nearly new in the activity of those we would have wise, good, and sincere men." -John Locke, 1632-1704, "Some Thoughts Concerning Education," 1692.
"Chide not the student hastily, for that will some smudge his wit and disparage his diligence, but [ad]monish him gently, which shall take home him both willing to amend and glad to go fore in esteem and belief of learning... Let the master say, 'Here ye do cured.' For I undertake you location is no specified stone to change a accurate wit and awaken a admiration of basic cognitive process as his praise... In hole in the ground opinion, be keen on is better than fear, consideration greater than beating, to distribute up a nipper justifiedly in erudition." -Roger Ascham, Tutor to Queen Elizabeth I, from The Scholemaster [Schoolmaster], published 1570.
"Children ought to be led to trustworthy practices by mechanism of encouragement and reasoning, and best indisputably not by blows and ill conduct." -Plutarch, circa 46-120 A.D., "The Education of Children," Vol. I, Moralia, Ancient Greece.
"It is a upsetting and unoriginal tending... When brood are beaten, symptom or distress oftentimes have the arise of which it is not pleasing to verbalize and which are plausible later to be a root of shame, discredit which unnerves and depresses the head and leads the youngster to avoid the light of day and deride the pale... I will pass no longer time on this concern. We know satisfactory around it just." -Quintilian, circa 40-118 A.D., Institutes of Oratory, Ancient Rome